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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here. I will answer honestly.

If I'm not in the mood, I will attempt to signal this subtly well before bed. Remarks about long exhausting day, looking forward to early bed time, hoping to read myself to sleep quickly, etc. I put on the least attractive sleep clothes I own. I lie on my side facing away from him. If he tries to initiate sex, I tell him that I love him very much, but that I am exhausted and just want to go to sleep, that I hope to feel better on the morrow.

We have sex on average 5x/week. The "rejections" are not related to low desire or lack of attraction, but to genuine exhaustion. I don't like having sex during my period usually. I don't like having sex when I'm sick. H and I are pretty much on the same page about all of that, and he's secure in our sexual relationship. Honestly, he does the same thing some nights![/quote]

You sound like a wonderful wife. Your husband has no valid complaint about the 2x per week you shoot him down but he probably still does -- I know I would lol.   We have sex of some type 4 or 5 times a week, and DW has even told me she would have sex of give me a bj every day if I wanted, but I don't enjoy it as much when it seems like she's checking off another one of the household chores :) .   She would be good with twice a week. What are some of the things your husband does to get / keep you in the mood more frequently?[/quote]

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