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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do your spouses try to hug on you and kiss on you when you are in the middle of doing something? My DH is too much for me and it is especially irritating when he starts in when I'm cooking dinner, cleaning up, or unloading the dishwasher.

This overwhelming affection is an ENORMOUS turn off. If he is reading the book the PP is talking about, it is surely backfiring.  Not all of us want/ need affirmation every second of the day.

For me, a man is sexy when he is not desperate.[/quote]

I obviously don't know your situation, but the dynamic can result in a Catch-22 for a guy who isn't getting affection from his wife. Like you say, frequent groping can result in a perception that he's looking for affirmation, in your words, "every second of the day." He would respond that there are many seconds -- perhaps even a majority of seconds -- during the day when he's not looking for affirmation. But the only seconds where he registers on your attention his when he's seeking affirmation that you don't want to give. So, lets say he backs off -- there is a real danger that he disappears entirely from your perception. (I say "you" and "your" generally -- like I say, I don't know PP's situation.)

The trick for a guy is to become more attractive to his wife, and if there's simply no attracting her, choose between an inadequate or non-existent sex life or finding a new wife. If a wife thinks her husband is hot, she'll welcome the groping. And if he backs off, she'll come looking for him. [/quote]

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