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[quote=Anonymous]It might be a relationship issue between FIL and MIL. Since he's so good with kids, and she's never had any, she might have felt inept and inadequate, and he (if he's a little old-fashioned) might have been a little disappointed in her lack of motherliness. If the experience caused them relationship issues, they are not going to tell you about it, but both will be resentful of it. I'd say let it go and like a PP said, be the bigger person. And know in the future that they're not up to having the kids stay with them. (just for anyone else considering having someone watch the kids while they're on vacation--- I would have tried harder to persuade them to stay at your house. It would have been SO much easier for the kids, and thus for them also.)[/quote]
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