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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think his sex life is too relevant except perhaps in judging fitness for custody.  However, this is all heresay isn't it?   I suspect this info has little impact in determining fault- which isn't applicable in most states these days, anyway.  They will just apply a formula to his income based on days with children annually.

I don't think it's fair to skewer OPfor not telling her- this knowledge will ultimately not do much for her in terms of her court proceedings, and only serve as another haunting memory.   I would not twist the knife without pause.[/quote]

It might strengthen her resolve to go through with the divorce and it might encourage her to stand up for her own rights a bit more.  But you're right this info will likely neither save nor end the marriage.
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It was information that would have been helpful for her 'friend' to have when deciding if the marriage was worth saving and what areas they needed to work on.  As someone who has survived infidelity, I know that until you have honesty, you have no hope of rebuilding a relationship.  Revealing this information now might still benefit her 'friend'.  It would help reinforce her belief that she made the right decision to divorce.[/quote]

yes.  It probably would have been better for the friend to say something much earlier but that didn't happen.  But even now, the info may be helpful.[/quote]

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