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[quote=Anonymous]What do you do if your son marries a genuinely troubled woman? We managed okay until kids were born, since then it's been painful to watch them grow up. DIL had a deeply traumatic childhood (essentially given away and then reclaimed by parents) and is understandably deeply insecure and threatened by any affection kids have for grandparents etc. and vastly overprotective. Kids visit us for a few hours at a time, but there are repeated calls about what are kids doing, eating, toileting etc. Our DS is trying to be a good DH as far as we can tell. There's no discussion of DIL's extreme anxiety etc. My DH and I are terrified that we'll lose access to grandkids, go out of our way to follow rules etc. But kids are getting older and are super anxious and otherwise showing toll of all this anxiety and control. It breaks my heart. WWYD? [/quote]
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