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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He hasn't even met you, so even if you're uncomfortable with the recent weight gain, he's not going to be.  If he likes you, he likes you.

I've been 20 lbs lighter than I am now, and have lost 10 lbs. since meeting my BF (early 40s, but what else do I call him?).  He has always liked my butt -- crazy, but true.  This thing is not small even 20 lbs. lighter.  I'm very aware of trying to lose weight, but BF could care less.

Like you, I am/was self-conscious about it...but I always wear clothes that fit, look nice and even when I didn't feel confident, I faked it.  That is what men have typically found attractive.  In the end, your potential date wants a kind (so many men use this adjective), smiley, positive, engaging woman.  If you have a good personality, it may be you who doesn't like him, rather than vice versa. Unless you don't have any clothes that fit properly, I would not buy anything new.  Save that for a great second or third date.  First dates, low expectations, even if all signs say otherwise.  You don't want to be disappointed.

I'm a jeans, heels, cute shirt type of woman.  But I remember seeing a story about what guys prefer -- always feminine and a dress or skirt.  In summer, I'm much more likely to do a casual dress...but in winter, the dress and boots thing is good, or dressy pants/jeans.  I don't think the "what" matters as much as you appear overall.[/quote]

Thank you for sharing, that's helpful![/quote]

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