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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep, search his room. There should be no expectation of privacy in your home when he has shown he cannot be trusted. Also, I would do phone/computer checks. I check my children's phones once or twice a month. Unannounced, and they must hand over the phone or laptop immediately so my husband or I can read the history and messages. No privacy in this home. [/quote] I totally agree. We check rooms, phones, computers and they know we will. We reserve the right to randomly drug test. Addiction runs in my family. It's heartbreaking when parents turn a blind eye. While I am sure they don't like these rules, I think inside them they know that we do it because we love them. I started that message at a young age with my kids. "Yes it would be easier for me to let you eat junk food all day long, but I don't because it is my JOB as a parent to help you eat healthy food and learn good choices both because it is my job and because I love you." They seem to get it. [/quote]
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