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[quote=Anonymous]OP - a lot of people struggling with infertility react this was. I did IUIs and IVF and I never felt like this, but on the IF message boards I read a lot of people who cry all the way home from family events, are shaking with rage when people announce pregnancies on FB, and get upset on holidays, back to school, mothers' day, and basically any day that ends in Y. They have this code for messages so no one accidentally reads a thread that talks about pregnancies, children, miscarriages, etc. The culture of IF is the opposite of DCUM - everyone is overly sensitive to offending no one and everyone is easily offended anyway. I don't understand, but I try not to judge. I agree to just drop her a note or a phone message once and a while (without kid noise in the background) and say you're thinking of her. Offer to go out with her for coffee or lunch. Don't talk about your kids at all. If she asks keep it brief and talk about the news, movies, her job, etc. [/quote]
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