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[quote=Anonymous] OP - I think you realize that it is time for you and your husband to have an honest conversation about how things stand between the two of you as a couple. Clarifying that you are his co-equal and partner and not "someone to be managed" would be a good starting point. Secret emailing between his sister and him involving what you will and will not do need to end as you are not your husband's second child. Also, it sounds as it the few dollars saved on a sitter for either family is not worth it given the family dynamics of SIL and Brother/Your Husband. I think I would just say it is time for both families to just find their own sitters, and to DH that it will take away one big conflict area. Then your child is no longer an infant and you need to explore with your husband just what he would like to be doing with you as a couple in a positive way. This will give you an idea then of the age and background of the sitter you will need to find. [/quote]
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