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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Just to update: DH's issue has been resolved, for the most part, but unfortunately we haven't gotten pregnant again yet 4 months post miscarriage. It's disappointing because my doctor made it seem like we'd get pregnant again right away because women are "so fertile" after a D&C.

Had family in town this weekend and they were meeting my sisters kids for the first time. She made it a point to brag in front of me how each one was conceived first month TTC. I wanted to jump across the table.

I didn't realize it until now but the irony in this post is I was pregnant and hormonal when I started this thread (but didn't know it yet). Sigh. [/quote]

I'm sorry, OP.

I feel your pain.  After my miscarriage, I feel like I held back the grief because I kept telling myself I'd be pregnant again soon.   And I'm still not pregnant.

Meanwhile, a relative recently had a baby, knows about my miscarriage, and never stops with the "so blessed to be a mom" and constant in-my-face about how great it is to be a mom.  I don't know why people are so lacking in tact and class.  But they are.

Women who brag over fertility are ridiculous.  Fertility isn't something to brag about.   And if I've learned anything from this entire experience, it will be not to be self-righteous or annoying if I ever do become a parent.

Anyhow, I wish you luck.  [/quote]

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