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[quote=Anonymous]So sorry OP, He is in the delusional state of an affair--has to twist things around to suit his situation. No way are you moving out. Not at all. You need to make it perfectly clear--in counseling, whatever--that You are not interested in ending the marriage; that you note he is not interested in trying to mend it; that he is maintaining an inappropriate relationship that jeopardizes your marriage and that he is  deluding himself to think that this is okay.

OP, I would really prepare yourself to discover that he is, already, deeply involved one way or another with this woman. And in order to justify to himself his actions, he has to convince himself that your marriage is rotten and not worth saving. Do not let him get away with this! Check out 'surviving infidelity' boards. But also take some action: personally, I would check phone and text history and probably email history of possible. I would NOT contact the other woman. I would also do a quick assessment of where you are financially, if he should suddenly split.

Im so sorry, but I think you need to prepare yourself that he is deeply involved with someone else and lying his ass off to you. That's what people do when they're having affairs. [/quote]

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