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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. To 21.56. No, I wouldn't be happy. I hope there are other things I can teach my daughters. I am a human being and obviously very imperfect. If I cannot model a perfect marriage for them, maybe at least I can show them I didn't just throw a towel in this challenging situation. I get that I am exposing them to something potentially damaging, I also HOPE they will learn to make better choices than I did, hopefully from other role models in their lives. [/quote] But they aren't going to see that you didn't just throw in the towel unless you buck up and take control of the situation. Insist on therapy, do ultimatums, when he says something mean, disengage from him until he's over it, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. Simply saying "well I hope they see I didn't throw in the towel and hopefully they will have other role models in their lives" is an absolute terrible way to look at it. Are you in therapy OP? [/quote]
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