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[quote=Anonymous]"OP here.
1. If there are physical issues, it's don't ask/don't tell.
2. We've been trying to do more of that, but running the household is a full time job that we do together. Most of our couples-only time is in front of the TV after the kids are in bed.
3. No, but I'd have no clue what it is. I've certainly got my faults (we all do) but when I look around, the bar is pathetically low when it comes to being a good husband.
4. Yes. All the time."

So this tells me that you have 3 things to do on your to-do list.  Ask her to have an open and honest discussions about #1 and #3 (separate discussions, and be willing to listen and not judge).  If she can't or won't, then I think counseling is in order.  And you really need to find a way to work on #2.  Tell her that you want to find new things to do together, and ask her to commit to trying one new thing together a month for the next 6 months.  Each of you gets to find and organize (including arranging childcare) three activities (alternate months - you go first) that are either new or that you haven't done together in a very long time.  The one who isn't doing the planning doesn't get to complain.  Hopefully, something will stick and become a new hobby that you do together.[/quote]

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