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[quote=Anonymous]He is expecting you to treat his basement spreadsheet review the same way you would treat a job he was being paid for that consumed that many hours. It's not the same thing. The agreement we have always had was that the person who doesn't have to get up and go to work in the morning handles the lion's share of the housework, the child duties (even if that is taking the child to daycare), the cooking and the home maintenance stuff. If that person is out of work involuntarily, then they also dedicate significant time to finding work. We have both been in this position at various times. If I had a one and a half year old whose needs I was 100% responsible for when my husband was occupied with non-paying work on his computer in another area of the house and was unavailable for help with anything, I would be absolutely livid. He is not contributing to your family at all.[/quote]
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