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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reading all these replies... This is why I never want to be married again.  It's so nice to only see my guy once a week.  To think about him.... look forward to it.... save up my energy and then totally attack him.  Only have sex when you WANT to, not because you are obligated, and not because you have to worry about feelings of rejection or the destruction of your relationship if you aren't having sex whenever he wants to.  
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I knew a woman who told me her husband expected sex every-other night.  I thought, how horrible.  It's like you're a receptacle for a bodily function, like a toilet, instead of passionate love making[/b].  I'd go nuts if I had someone pawing at me all the time like that.

Most men and women who want romance should not live together.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder.  [/quote]

But sex is not just pleasurable for the man (we hope). Women get something (an orgasm) out of it too. You make it sound like you're doing a favor for the guy and by only "having" to do it once a week it's a favor you're happy to give. HIM. But women can enjoy and crave sex for the pleasure and release it gives them too. I have sex with DH 3-4 times a week. Not because he expects it every other night (although at this point, he probably does since happens for the most part), but because I want him, I want to be that close with him, because he makes my body feel amazing and in return I try to make his body feel amazing also. It's not one-sided.[/quote]

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