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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh man I remember that other thread. The real concern here is her almost pathological lack of concern for the kids, and her stated unwillingness to be a stepmother. How is she going to feel when he goes and stays at the other family's house when she has an infant? [/quote]

She sees no problem with it.  More or less in her words, "it's good that he goes take care of his kids twice a month.  That way, I can keep part of my independence."  I think it's a self-centered (and overly optimistic) answer, to say the least.  That is the point: everything is self-centered. As I mentioned, if I had been asked before the affair, I would have said that she is a wonderful person and the best aunt in the world.  I don't know why she is thinking so selfishly.  I think she waited too long to live this -- a strong relationship with whom she calls "the man of her life." She now wants to live things she never experienced in the past, and doesn't want to wait.  I am sure she wishes the best for his kids, but right know they are not the priority -- her new experiences are her priority.  At the appropriate time, would she be able and willing to be a loving stepmother?  I do think so, but obvio

We can't  easily change guardians because, despite these flaws, we don't see an alternative person whom we could trust with our kids.  [/quote]

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