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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks. That conversation already took place, with little result.  She won't hear anything she doesn't want to hear.

I can see a situation where our family relation normalizes and where I can even keep her as a guardian, depending on how things go.  However, I cannot see a situation where I can be at peace knowing that, if something happened to me and DH, the married man would become the father figure to my kids.  As I said, she is fundamentally a good person, doing stupid things out of desperation.  On the other hand, while I don't think he is a bad person (and don't think he is lying to her), I obviously don't have a good impression about him.  Leaving aside the fact that he has rushed into a relationship with her in a very selfish manner (perhaps as an escape to what appears to be a miserable marriage), he has shown little regards for his own kids' emotional well being.  How in the world can I trust that, if he were to become her husband, he will be a good role model to my kids? That is perhaps what troubles me the most.[/quote]

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