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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks. The woman is not pregnant, but they are trying to conceive, with the expectation that the divorce will take less than 9 months to be final.  I did start a thread about her recently, in which I talked about the weird arrangement he and his wife are planning -- the kids will stay with the wife, and he will visit a couple of times a month -- and, even thought it wasn't her idea or her decision, the woman is happy about this plan because she doesn't want to be a step mother.  Most (not all) posters agreed with my impression that it was a bizarre plan.

I care about her situation because I had named her as a guardian for my kids should something happen to me and my DH.  When I mentioned that in the previous thread, most posters suggested that I consider a new guardian.  We have really struggled with this issue because, despite appearances, she has always been an absolutely wonderful aunt to my kids, and a great person overall (at least prior to this affair) but this affair has revealed a side of her that I never expected to witness.   We had decided to wait before changing guardians, as there is no clear alternative.  But I just found out about their plan to actively try to conceive a baby before the divorce is final, and I am again troubled by her decision making process.  It's as if she is different person when it comes to this affair.  I am trying to think that, given her inexperience with matters of the heart, she is just being a temporary fool, and that she will at some point wake up.  But perhaps I am being too optimistic and a charitable explanation to her behavior might be too unrealistic.[/quote]

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