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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Looking at it objectively, I think it would be a bigger sacrifice for him to not take the job than it would be for you to move.  Doesn't mean there should be no discussion about it, and hopefully he's really listening to you, and (if you agree to move) he will acknowledge your sacrifice and express his appreciation, as well as do anything he can to make things easier/better for you.

Honestly, though, is living with year-round sunshine and being able to take your kids to the beach the worst thing in the world?
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+1. Sorry OP, but I think the cards are stacked against you if you're going by pros/cons. Pros for staying: being close to your family, your comfort level. Pros for moving: being close to your husband's family, more $ (this wouldn't be true in LA or SF, but in San Diego it is), potential career growth for your husband, good weather

I think you're feelings are totally valid, but this seem like a really good opportunity. And if you really hate it, you can move back. Your kids will be happy in either place. [/quote]

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