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[quote=Anonymous]OP, please post an update when you can and let us know how the zoloft is working out.

I do think a 504 would be in order and additional supports. Having a teacher say things like 'He's bright but needs to take responsibility" is not really helpful. I totally agree with the PP who said an educational plan is paramount. So much self esteem gets wrapped up in school and feeling like you can't perform or make friends is horrible for kids this age--it is why kids this age do commit suicide. WHile your son may be a bit of a drama queen, you must take the suicidal ideation as a very real expression of serious distress (which it sounds like you do, of course--sounds like you are doing everything you can).

I would also  have a conversation with your son about learning differences and brain differences: acknowledge that every one's brain works differently. It is harder for him to focus and easier for him to feel anxious and sad. This is genetic, hereditary and not his fault. It is also treatable, to a certain extent, but he needs to be a willing partner on it. if you think he's be up to it, have him report on thoughts/feelings/stuck places. If not, work with him (and a family therapist?) to create a schedule, work on motivations (like minecraft). If you could get a homework tutor even a few days a week, it might help him stay on track, is that a possibility? Iwould also see if said tutor can get him to take the ritalin if necessary (why does your son refuse it? does he not like the idea of it, or the feeling it produces?).

about 'outdoor' time--what about a class that involves physical activity? we tried many things before finding martial arts to be effective and pleasurable.

encopresis: is he taking fiber supplements? We found mixing them in a smoothie to help. Hard when your kid eats only crackers, but we came up with a 'must include' diet and then let him have a lot of 'not so good for you' things as well, as long as the healthy, fiber and protein based things were consumed.(yes, sugar but after broccoli).

finally, where is your spouse on this? Do you have support? you two need to be unified in your plan.

hugs to you. its a hard, anxious road. I wish you the best and some serious improvement for your son. [/quote]

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