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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It didn't seem like he was being physically abused. He looks clean and the adults seem to be used to this behavior. I am not condoning it, but I grew up with a white step dad that called me names (shit head, little shit, dumbass) always in a teasing, semi loving manner. He grew up in a poor family in Oklahoma and this was how they showed affection. I was also encouraged to throw back epithets that he would laugh at and encourage. It was messed up, but he never abused me. I did just fine, I did not continue this cycle with my kids. This is how this family "plays" it sounds horrible to us, and it is wrong but if this child turns into a "thug" it's because of many different reasons.[/quote] All that name calling has warped your brain if you believe anything you just wrote. What your stepdad did and what these folks are doing is emotionally abusive, dysfunctional and ABUSIVE. Say it with me: A.B.U.S.E! And yes this type of emotional abuse can create non-empathetic, hostile, aggressive behaviour due to low self-esteem, failure to have self-control and a myriad of other issues. Wow -- what a clueless response. WHO IN THE HELL thinks that cussing out a baby/child is not likely to lead to problems in the future. WHAT THE FUQH?[/quote]
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