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[quote=Anonymous]I wanted a large family, at least 4 kids.  I have a medical condition making PGD IVF the safest option for us to have children 100% out of pocket.  The process to conceive our first child took over 2 years, and over $100,000. The second child, same, and during the csection for my second the dr said my uterus was ripping, I should not have anymore children.  I was devastated, esp since we had embryos frozen and had planned to use.  It took me a good 6 months to come to terms with it.  That was 3 years ago, now I am 40 and think I am just too old to start over with another baby.  I mourn for the family I wanted but relish in the joy the family I have now.  I understand having a lifelong dream, but life is about making adjustments and dealing with the curve balls. There are plenty of advantages to having only one child, all the individual attention, saved money allowing for extra opportunities, less stress on the marriage, etc.  see the beauty in what is in front of you, what you can touch, what you can feel  your beautiful child!  One day the cloud will be lifted, I promise![/quote]

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