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[quote=Anonymous]No one here has raised the possibility that OP could have a frank and open discussion with her husband about the situation and what he would like to do about it now.  I have done this and it has made a world of difference.  We admit to each other that this is a work in progress, with the outcome unclear.  But we have a lot more at stake because our children would be far more affected, as they are older.  In her shoes, already asking the question while the child is under age 3, I would tell DH that they need to have a serious talk, arrange a quiet neutral place with no one around that knows them, and confront the issue with him, brainstorm solutions (eg., live separately but stay married, live in same house as roommates, get divorced, co-parent, sex counseling.)  He may opt for open marriage which I don't see how she can rule it out when it could take any number of formats.

I don't see how one can struggle through sex rather than just be honest and confront the problem.  That kind of sex can't be too great for him either.[/quote]

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