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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of course i don't want to be an emotional mess, but watching it play out on my daughter is really really hard to take. he's a complete asshole that does what ever he wants to do. It's not my fault. I communicated that I was vulneralbe and the ass told my daughter to lie to me. All he had to do was man up and tell me himself and all would be fine. But he can  NEVER EVER have the hard conversations and has his daughter do his dirty work. Fucked up.

Again - how do I co-parent with an asshole. What is what I'm asking. [/quote]

A) you created the "dirty work" by declaring to the world that you can't handle it and that you wanted to control his actions
B) he and your daughter were actually looking out for you, because even if you should be able to handle it they see that you can't and tried to spare you.
C) you never should have asked her about it specifically
D) the advice for co-parenting is contained within: stop trying to control him, stop questioning your daughter when she comes back, eliminate your expectations that you will be able to change his behavior, focus solely on the direct matters which are about your daughter and accept that he is going to move on with a new woman who will be a part of daughter's life

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