Reply to 3 weeks postpartum and don't want to be touched...how to explain to husband?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "3 weeks postpartum and don't want to be touched...how to explain to husband?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While some of the responses here have been harsh, OP, you did say:  [quote=I lose all interest in sex while pregnant]I lose all interest in sex while pregnant and obviously haven't been cleared by my ob yet. [/quote]  There's nothing there suggesting you have been having sex for up to 8 months of pregnancy.  So, now your answer sounds a bit retconned.[/quote]

Loss of interest doesn't mean I didn't do it anyway because i love my husband and have no interest in a sexless marriage (as i said in the first post).  Also, I didn't think frequency during pregnancy was relevant to the original question. [/quote]

It's relevant because, while a decent guy will accept a certain amount of sexlessness; there are limits. If you were having regular sex or at least (say) giving handjobs through 8 months, then the guy can be expected to be more patient post-pregnancy.

But there is really no guarantee you'll ever feel sexual with him. After 7 years, my wife never seemed to bounce back after #2. First I chalked it up to pregnancy, then post-partum issues, then taking care of infants, then taking care of toddlers. After the kids became school aged and our sex life hadn't returned to anything like it was up until pregnancy #2; it became apparent we have a big problem to address.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics