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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I'm kind of in a rut with my DH whom I love very, very much. At the same time I have been placed in close quarters with a male co-worker who I get along great w.  Lack of connection and stimulation at home + close contact and chemistry at work is causing me to get too comfortable with my co-worker and become aroused. I think he likes my company too. I'm not looking to get out of my relationship or stray. I am doing the work to get back on track with DH. How do I stop thinking about this other person sexually and prevent increasing closeness?

Changing work arrangement is not an option and neither is being cold to my co-worker due to the nature of our work. If I could move my office to a different building or change my work team I would, simply to remove these thoughts. I would love to zap it from my brain. Help! I need practical suggestions to right the ship both internally and with my co-worker.

TIA![/quote]

It's easy to have chemistry with a co-worker with whom you don't have household shit or kid shit to deal with.

I guarantee you if your husband talked like this about some cute intern at his office you'd hit the roof.

Or maybe you're just not ready to settle down. Don't go off and live your fantasies while expecting your husband to do all the grunt work AND remain faithful.[/quote]

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