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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]22:14, upon my therapist's request, I have been trying to find areas where I truly appreciate my H. I admit I have a hard time doing this.
He works regular hours, earns decent money (over 100k), he likes his profession and is good at it. He is pretty creative and handy when he wants to be, but this is very rare. 
I think he was a lot like your DH when we got married- accepting, very soft, I never thought he would become so harsh later on, when the dynamics started changing due to childbirth and work situation. I think responsibility scares him, and my increased dependence on him kind of makes him "drunk", and he cannot really deal with this combination. 
He is also pretty lazy and no way is he a partner in childrearing.

I thunk he can be a decent husband for someone who is strong and self sufficient, which I am increasingly becoming again, but I am not sure I can stay this way forever, nor can I forget the way he was when I wasn't strong.

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I hope he divorces you.  You sound like an absolute nightmare to be married to.  I can't imagine being married to a complete and utter bitch like you.  [/quote]

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