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[quote=Anonymous]I have a different take on OPs issues than most of the PPs. I think she's admirable. She's gone to therapy to understand her control issues, is aware of how they affect her marriage, and is trying to sort out a constructive direction to take. That's what you're supposed to do when you recognize you have a problem. I know someone who married a man she could control and is continuing to control him several years later. He's vulnerable because of his mental illness, and completely her puppet. It's horrible and sad. What OP is doing is the opposite of horrible. OP, I hope you keep working on this. It's not surprising that your husband is reacting to your growth. Try not to feel discouraged. Maybe marriage counseling would be something he would consider so that you can work together to develop a more respectful partnership. Good luck, I wish you well.[/quote]
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