Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "how many trips is normal?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think "you can't afford it" is always relative. You need to convince DH of the reality. Now that you've made a budget, share it with him. You can have a conversation about if there is anything you could cut to make the visits he wants a reality. If it's cutting Ferragamos for you, that's probably doable, but if it's cutting nursery school for the kids, I expect he will come around to your way of thinking that this is unrealistic. Let the numbers do the talking. Don't make this a power struggle. And yes, 4 visits is a lot but not crazy. That's not the point here. The point is what you and he want and can actually afford. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
