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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think it's great that you are home with your children and investing in them right now. You don't necessarily need to get a job to take back some power in your relationship. Ignore those judgemental working moms. You do need to control the budget and finances though. Make sure there are fund avail to do home repairs. Its your office and you need it to be safe and non-chaotic. I would ask the kids for more help cleaning/organizing around the house. They are certainly old enough. And I would have plans on weekend a night--plan a date night for just you. I get that datenight frustration. My DH never plans dates! Never has but I learned that if I have plans without him (even just a drive to the monuments) he suddenly feels left out and starts planning. Lastly, could your DHbe depressed? It sounds like he is having trouble with motivation, decision making and care for others. Not acceptable but maybe a counselor could help him.[/quote]
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