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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you PP!  [There are some real a&&holes on here.  I don't know how they have so much time on their hands.  Well, I guess they have no friends, so, that gives them all the time in the world to attack strangers.  They need help.  People come here for help and they just want to know about your personal life?  Really?  How sad.]

Anyway, I am concerned that meds might change him professionally - dull him?  Does that make sense?  That would be bad.  But it is getting worse, so it looks like I should find a psychiatrist (able to prescribe meds)?

DH has always been about appearances, socially.  He does anything to have people on his side.  Again, he was abused by his siblings growing up. I think this is stemming from that.  It sucks to be at the receiving end of whatever this is!  It is really hard to come up with examples, because my only way of coping has been to block them out.

We have been unsuccessful in finding the proper therapist.  Any recommendations?  I know there is a phrase for what is he is doing, I just don't know the professional jargon for it.  It's almost like he is trying to show off - "look how great I am, I am on your side!" or "look how great I am, I am giving you all this money!".  It used to be he would throw me under the bus, which became tiresome - and that behavior adds up, too! Now he has moved onto this.

It seems like it is a game to him. Is it against me?  Am I his target of some sort?     
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Please do not worry about meds making him "duller" There are 6 million Americans taking meds and doing just fine. But you need a pro to help you figure it all out. Try not to take each remark personally -- look at the overall picture. Meds can work wonders for people and let them live a normal life. (Which you wont be living if he gives away all of your assets)[/quote]

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