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[quote=Anonymous]Is it possible your DH is upset and stressed about your job loss, and is (subconsciously) using his parents as proxies to express to you his disappointment and frustration? That's sort of how it sounds when I read your posts. If your ILs have a history of being rude and intrusive that you and DH have discussed, then he knew they weren't going to react appropriately. As a PP wrote, he's known them longer than he's known you, so he knew they were going to react in a way that was going to make you feel uncomfortable when they saw you over the holidays. You're his wife; he owes you the courtesy of kindness, so this "sharing" isn't cool. If your ILs are as difficult as you say they are, then it might be a good idea to develop a strategy for the holidays that will minimize unpleasantness. You're stressed enough as it is, and you need to be kind to yourself. I hope things work out for you.[/quote]
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