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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay...Newly Divorced Single Mother of Two Children, Ages 5 and 10. Have 50/50 Joint Custody.

Recently started online dating. Went out on first date last week. Met a nice guy. Had pizza and later went to a bar for beer.

Great conversation.

He's recently divorced as well and has two young children as well, ages 3 and 6. Very open and honest man. Handsome. Witty. Smart. I felt so comfortable with him and have seen him every day since. We haven't slept together yet, but have kissed and he is a great kisser. I am [i]really[/i] starting to fall for him and I look forward to each and every day now because I get to see him. I think he feels the same way about me too.  :wink:

One red flag however.
He told me on our first date that he has been arrested six times for domestic violence w/his ex-wife. He said he wanted to be upfront + honest w/me from the beginning since integrity means a lot to him and if I wasn't comfortable w/this, he would [u]totally[/u] understand it. 
He said his ex-wife was a b-i-t-c-h and called the police on him six times claiming he beat her up. She self-inflicted her injuries and by the time the police showed up, they arrested him because he had been drinking and she was sober. He swears he never has been convicted of anything and has never has any restraining order against him. He says he never EVER laid a hand on her, that she made everything up.

I really like this guy and want so much to believe him. Part of me likes the fact that he was upfront and honest on our first date...Many guys wouldn't have done this, right? Another part wonders what the other side of the story could be.

For the record this guy is 39 yrs. old and cannot see his children much because his ex is such a bitch that she is keeping the kids from him.

What do you guys think?[/quote]

You sound perfect for each other. [/quote]

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