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Reply to "How to handle marriage where kid duty for medical appts is very uneven?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that you need to step up and do your part here. Making everything fair doesn't mean that you do 1/2 of the doctor's appointments and your husband does the other 1/2. It means that overall you both do what needs to be done, this include work at your job, work around the house, taking kids to the doctors, and such. If your husband's job requires longer hours at work and is less flexible you have to step up to do your part. [/quote] Not op but at what point do you say enough is enough? At one point does it become a matter of one parent focusing solely on work while pushing all other household and childcare responsibilites on the other parent? That's what seems to be happening here the balance of power has tilted and op is getting stuck with working her full time job plus everything else. She has had to step up by default and what point does she say enough! You need to carry your weight!?[/quote]
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