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[quote=Anonymous]DC is 3.  I can see how I am coming off as judgmental and what not from the way I am writing, but I'm coming here to vent and this is not how I talk to him.

I don't think supporting your husband for 3 years and standing by waiting for his business to make money is being "dismissive of his wants and needs". I've given him 3 years. This cannot go on and on and on. I think its reasonable that he should go in another direction and just find some kind of paying job.

What you don't understand is that I have tried many many times to approach him calmly and with understanding, and he just never can have any kind of conversation with me about anything without blowing up. I don't deserve to be yelled at or have to walk on egg shells every day of my life. He is making DC cry and get upset every time he does this. I have said I do not want to live in a life like this or have DC grow up in a house where there is always yelling. He apologizes, but nothing ever changes.

He literally gets into a rage mode where he is about to start throwing things (has done this), and is scaring the shit out of me and my son. Sometimes I wonder if it will escalate into something worse.

The more I think about this and type it out the worse I feel. I guess I can say that we need to go to counseling, and if he refuses then we'll have to separate.

But that is a whole other issue. He has made threats about how he would get DC, and I would not. That I should starting calling lawyers etc. I mean, WTF. I have never threatened to leave with our kid, or threatened divorce.

I'm starting to think maybe I should talk to a lawyer. I have no idea what is going through his head. The last thing I need is for him to try to take my child away from me. I mean seriously, do I need to go and file for custody before he goes and does something insane?

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