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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one finds him creepy? That's your evidence that he's a good guy? You do realize that child molesters are very good at going undetected. They usually ARENT "creepy." They are usually the people you never expect - that's why they get away with it.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Naive. Many molesters are relatives. Many molesters live with the family. OP's parents were the adults back then, not OP's 9 year old self.[/quote]

OK.  So child molesters go undetected and look just like normal people.  Therefore we should condemn all normal people?

Many molesters are relatives.  Therefore we should condemn all relatives?

Yes, OP's parents were adults back then.  And OP was a child.  And I think OP's parents were TOTALLY right to do what they had to do to protect their child from a POSSIBLE bad situation.  But OP is an adult now.  OP can judge for herself whether or not this guy is someone she wants to continue to be friendly with.

[b]Even if this guy was trying to "groom" her, maybe he has reformed.  I know it is supposed to be rare that pedophiles truly reform, but I suspect if there were convincing evidence that they NEVER reform, then they'd stay in jail longer.[/b][/quote]

Again, naive. And, who said all relatives should be condemned? Clearly this guy was and still is creepy. Also, are you actually suggesting that if he was in fact grooming her, she should believe that he is reformed and therefore be his friend and expose her own family to his creepisess? No one is saying send him to jail, but she should not expose her family to him.  We all have a clouded memory of our childhood. Her parents probably know more than she does about the situation back then. She doesn't want to believe that he was creepy because in her memory, not in reality, he wasn't.[/quote]

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