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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hear you OP, but consider that counseling to improve communication between you two is a better immediate goal than her just getting a part-time job. I'm the (female) primary breadwinner in my household, but my job is also high-level and fulfilling, largely because I've had the time and education to invest in my career. If she's 10 years + out of the workforce, her options are retail, food service, and low level admin jobs. Now, jobs are jobs, don't get me wrong. But if I was a middle aged lady, I wouldn't be chomping at the bit to go work retail at the Gap either. Yes, she needs to stay on budget. But you both need to appreciate the other's contribution to the household. PP that listed all the stuff that just magically gets done in your house (meals, doc appointments, groceries) is right on. And you probably work your butt off too. Find a good counselor and do the work together. You'll be glad you did. GL. [/quote] This is great advice. Take it![/quote]
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