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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I do think it is important for your kids to see their cousins and to not lose out on a sense of (extended) family. If one of your kids has a mental illness do you want your other kids to shun him/her? If Thanksgiving is too stressful then arrange another time to see them and do thanksgiving at home. [/quote] Mental illness by itself is no reason to shun someone. When untreated mental illness has negative impact on others, particularly children, it most definitely is a reason to shun someone. I say this as someone who grew up with a lot of untreated mental illness in my immediate family (and the accompanying physical/mental abuse, substance abuse and suicide). My own DH has depression/anxiety which has been difficult to treat. My own kids are at high risk of mental illness given the family history. Mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse.[/quote]
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