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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will break from the pack on this one. I would not be insulted by the text. If they are in the habit of communicating that way, it seems perfectly normal to me. I strongly dislike talking on the phone, so text is fine with me.

OP, what COULD he do to make it up to you? If I was you, and still wanted to see him, I would say something along the lines of "I was pretty upset that you stood me up, but I am interested in you and would like to try again." Then suggest the activity that YOU would like.

If you really like him, recognize that sometimes things happen. If it happens again, cut him off.[/quote]

Agree[/quote]

Only if OP is on the lookout for other ways the guy is a flake ...

If he is a flake but nice/okay otherwise, then maybe date casually but don't expect it to change just because he's MARRIED. [/quote]

I'm the original PP who said that sometimes, things happen. My point was that if she really likes him, I see no reason why he should not be given a second chance. If she's not willing to give him a second chance, she clearly was more into the fantasy of him than him as a person who has flaws and makes mistakes. [/quote]

This is not a typical, forgivable "flaw".
This is thoughtlessness, disrespect and the mark of a loser - he isn't in his early twenties.[/quote]

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