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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know how you stand it. We can only get together two or three times a week and I'm miserable. How can you bear the lack of affection?[/quote]

If sex is the only time you're getting any affection, it sounds like your relationship has other problems.[/quote]
It's not the only time we share affection. We kiss each other and tell each other we love one another every day, which is why we still have a sex life. It's just not the daily affair it once was.

I'm baffled at people who never have sex and still manage to stay married. It sounds inevitable that at least one partner would seek out an affair.[/quote]

And I'm baffled at people who don't understand that people have different needs related to sex and can be perfectly happy in a marriage without much sex.[/quote]

How can you be perfectly happy in a marriage without much sex when you know your spouse doesn't feel the same way? Does it not in any way bother you that your spouse is miserable? I always find it so odd when people don't give a damn about how their spouse feels, it is all me, me, me. Yet on the other hand they expect their spouse to care about how they feel.

Unless both people have no sex drive and are both 100% fine with minimal or no sex then neither spouse should feel perfectly happy in the marriage. [/quote]

+1! Withdrawing from the sexual relationship and expecting the neglected partner to put up with that is taking advantage of the relationship. It's selfish. Sooner or later the neglected partner will leave to find someone else, with or without a divorce. That normal, healthy sex drive is still there, and other, attractive, interested people will respond in kind.

So definitely at least talk to your doctor to fix the problem if you want to stay married. [/quote]

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