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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dude, what? OP, I think you posting about frustration after your third cycle is a bit insensitive here. And totally ignorant and unrealistic.[/quote]

Op here.  I guess I don't see that bc this forum and others are often inundated with "most people are preg within three months" crap tho statistics don't work that way truly, the tries are not additive.  So I'm not seeing the unrealistic part based on a lot of responses here, and insensitive?  I thought we were al. TTC.[/quote]

Ok, as someone who has been TTC for over 2 years who technically "should" be offended by OP's post, I am just not seeing PP's point about insensitivity.  We are all in this awful predicament together and should support one another.  I feel so alone and can imagine feeling the same way even AFTER having 2 kids.  At least right now lots of people sympathize with me because I don't have any.  But once you try for your third, you are suddenly selfish and insensitive for talking about it?  Sorry, I think it's frustrating and hard no matter what.  Granted, many of us have it "worse" than others, but the hurt is still there.

Like her original post said, she's looking for encouragement!  Can we please just encourage one another for once??  Ok, rant over. :)[/quote]

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