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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I suspect most of the posters here either have mutual libidos with their spouse, or they are the lower libido one. You have no idea the kind of havoc that constant rejection and lack of intimacy/affection can wreak on a marriage. It isn't as simple as sex. I have the higher libido than DH. Thankfully he recognized what the rejection was doing to our marriage and we have worked out a compromise that has saved our relationship. The actual issue of not having sex (as in the physical action of it) was only about 15% of the problem. The other 85% was caused by other stuff related to the lack of sex. [/quote] May I ask how you compromised? Nothing I've been able to do has made my DH come around - expressing my needs rationally and calmly, letting it go for weeks or a month at a time, etc. This was after a year of outright flirtation and trying to have sex and getting constantly rejected. [/quote]
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