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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Newsflash people marriage is not only about sex. I have a truly great marriage, solid and healthy as a rock. But we have sex maybe 2-5 times a month. We are both fine with that, if either of us wanted it more we would say so. That said, there have been months where we haven't had sex or maybe only 1 or 2 times. It did not change the dynamic at all, we are each others best friend and this works for us. Any marriage that would fail due to lack of sex was never a strong one to begin with, and I believe that with every ounce of my being.[/quote]

It sounds like there are more issues at play than lack of sex.   It also doesn't sound like the lack of sex is working with her husband.  And I think that is ok.  I love my husband more than anything and he's my best friend, but if he rejected me on a regular basis and was not interested in sex, it would most certainly impact our marriage.  Not because of the lack of sex, but because of the rejection and the little interest in my needs as well.   Yes, low sex marriages work for some people but I don't think saying that the ones that don't work aren't a strong marriage.  Years of rejection and coldness can take a toll on either a husband or a wife.   That said, the fact that OP and her husband were arguing after dinner and THEN he said something leads me to believe they have other issues.  Same with the fact that OP said two words to her husband all day and made plans in order to avoid him over something that many PPs are confused as to why she's so angry.  Both these things make me think there are other issues going on than just the lack of interest from the wife.  [/quote]

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