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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with anyone who said the brother deserves to know. Its not for anyone else to determine what personal journey is up for or not up for. One cannot be the gatekeeper for someone else's reality. Its wrong that others know and he doesnt. He must know so he is given a chance to come to terms.

The one thing is this: ARE WE SURE THIS IS TRUE?? Or is it something your dad only suspects? Why would he make you kids write letters to your mom saying you dont want to see her? That sounds kind of sketchy. OP I think you should definitely support your brother in an investigation of this. 
OP: this is tough stuff! But you are doing the right thing by taking on the issues. Tell your brother and stand by him all the way like you said.

Wouldnt you want him to tell YOU if the tables were turned?

Good Luck! I think this will ultimately lead to closure. So sorry about your mothers death. Im glad you got to at least know her. What a mess all around but you are being the right kind of adult here. For what it worth: Im sending you an ((((((electronic hug)))))))).[/quote]

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