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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here -I didn't feel it appropriate to ask him to be in an exclusive relationship so soon, even though we had decided to have sex. I thought that after we had had sex and if we kept seeing each other, which we did, that seeing each other exclusively would come up naturally. Well, I was wrong. I asked him yesterday if he was seeing anyone else and I didn't really get a straight answer which I will take as he is. We talked briefly today and he was a bit distant. So, I'm assuming he's just in it for sex, which may or may not be a result of my decision not to have this talk prior to sex. If I'm viewed as a 16 year old as a PP commented, so be it. [/quote]

Lets break down what was really said in this post.
"I didn't want to ask him questions that I want the answer to, so I just did it anyway.. And I hoped that he would bring it up afterward since I obviously don't want to. He didn't so I kind of brought it up, to which be kind of answered. He didn't give me a clear answer and I didn't push for a clear answer so I'm making up assumptions."

There is nothing wrong with having sex and doing whatever you wish with a person. But blaming someone else for your refusal to get answers is absurd. [/quote]

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