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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks all.  I'm on pretty good solid financial ground of my own, have several fantastic investment properties and a very lucrative career of my own, so I don't "need" this Mr/ Big but he is the eternal challenge so to speak.  There are other gentlemen in my life, so I am not on tunnel vision with this MR Big who is very successful but in someways socially immature when it comes to dating world. I'm not going to push the "talk" becuase I don't think he will commit - so all I can do is keep my options open with other people, take it slow, and not pressure him or I.

I was just wondering if the brochure-showing, etc., is his way of inviting a "talk" or if he is buying more time..... It sounds like the consensus here is that it is the latter....and could be gamesmanship as I suspect....

BTW, in my experience, being explicit and forcing a "talk" is not productive and it is best to have th eman take the lead on bringing up this topic.....[/quote]

10:00 here.  I didn't see this before I posted.  He is stringing you along, sorry but that is my impression.  Just tell him what you want.  He is not socially immature, he just wants what he wants, which is not a relationship.  You want a relationship, so drop him.[/quote]

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