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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I'm definitely not going along house-hunting, and have not even really looked at the brochures he is showing me...  I get the sense that I can't force a conversation on him, and have to keep some distrance so he approaches me with the conversation... In the interim, until HE asks to be exclusive explicitly, I will date other people as well as him....  Becuase I can't force a decision on him, and think that wil make me look needy.... I just wonder if showing me this house stuff is his - less direct - way of telling me something, or if he is just testing me....
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Huh?  He is finding himself a bigger house for himself.  If you want a real relationship with this person, then you need to tell him directly.  Communication is the key, yes it's a cliche, but it's true.  It doesn't sound to me like he wants a real relationship with you.  I say tell him what you want (I'm assuming you want a real relationship), if he doesn't want that (and tell him you want a direct answer), then drop him.[/quote]

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