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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its me OP. I thank you for all the advice, the thing that I found really off putting was though she said it was a one time deal she seems really enamored with this guy, even started to tell me about his size, etc...which I DID NOT WANT TO HEAR ABOUT!!!!!!! But anyone to me who is genuinely remorseful would not have been so laid back to talk about the details. I can see everyone's perspective but i have decided its just more than I can or want to handle. It will feel very strange to be with them (her husband) knowing what I  know. I just cannot do it. I also decided i am going to tell my husband because he cannot understand why I suddenly don't want to go on our planned trip.
To anyone who is considering cheating, I advise you not to. And if you do, then keep it to yourself. Its an unfair burden to put on anyone who doesn't ask to be told.[/quote]

I think you're overreacting if she really is "one of your closest friends".  Tell her your honest opinion and if she brings it up again then ok, end the friendship but it sounds like she is having a personal crisis and could use a friend.[/quote]

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