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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op you are spoiled. No one in my family gave me cent when I was in my 20s. Your grandmother is not your servant, she doesn't have to give you money and she doesn't have to do what you tell her to do with her money. It sounds like she has some concerns about just handing you a check. Maybe she wants to see you, maybe she wants to keep in touch and make sure you are okay, maybe she wants to be sure that her money only goes to the landlord and to tuition.

If you don't want your landlord knowing about your finances - then pay your rent yourself. You sounds incredibly ungrateful, entitled and obnoxious. If I was in your family I wouldn't trust you with money either, based on what you have written here. [/quote]

What the hell is your problem, Bitter Apple?

Just because no one was there to give your sorry ass a lifting hand when the cold world was shitting on you doesn't mean you need to go through life spitting on others in the same predicament.  She has a nosy, unpleasant granny who cuts checks.  Old, controlling people with money can drive you absolutely bonkers, and she is not in a situation where she is self-sufficient, partly due to the shitty economy, partly due to her desire to further her education.

Just because you have to rely on family at times to...errr...pay basic rent and put food in your mouth when you are young does NOT make you spoiled.  Relying on your parents to buy you a new Bentley because you turned 18 and pitching a fit because it's not the right color is spoiled.

Do you even know what "spoiled" is?  Needing a helping hand once in a while to not starve is NOT spoiled, you know.

What were you, an institutionalized Eastern European orphan or something?  Develop some empathy, fool.

Cheese Lady.

p.s. not to make light of RAD...
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