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[quote=Anonymous]After a unpleasant childhood and a riff in my relationship with my father last year, I've made a lot of bad decisions about men in the last 18 mos. I understand the frustration of seeing yourself making bad decisions, but feeling compelled to do it. Start with a therapist. Learn to draw some healthy boundaries. Go to group therapy. Even if you don't have BPD, these workbooks can be helpful for the self-blame and self-hate: http://www.amazon.com/Dialectical-Behavior-Therapy-Skills-Workbook/dp/1572245131/ref=cm_lmf_tit_5 Lay down the law with your guy. If he can't deal, show him the door. [/quote]
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